Friday, February 20, 2009

Feb 9th, Birthday

This is the day of the year where I would balk and look back into my past...I reminisce last year - well adorned and draped in the nice saree . Instead of being happy with my brother's wedding arrangements - I wore a mask of cheerfulness when I was soaked up in moroseness that the destiny had given - after the call to US.

I told my friend that I would wish him on his birthday- Feb 9th till the last breath and this year also I did remember to wish on time. Its just not wise to make our lives more turbid with my wishes but I still would pray for him that wherever he is, I wish for a happy n cheerful life.

To me honoring the word defines me unless life has some noble .There is one saying which I remember every Feb 9th probably " Dhokha khana Dhoka dene se behtar hai" / "to be robbed is better than robbing away someone". I just cannot unravell the destiny but what I have today and what state I am in is far better.

Thinking on the lines of Birthday, I have stopped sending greets for my friend's birthdays because it had become taxing to remember birthdays and getting into monotonous routine of asking for the updates in residence address - I no longer enjoy to socialise but I wish I could be evanescent .I do care for them :sticking to e-copies of greets would at least help nature because I will not be responsible for felling of tree.

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